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Saturday, July 26, 2025

The Narrow Way of the Cross (23rd Sunday Ordinary Time - Year C)

 

Title: “The Narrow Way of the Cross”

Gospel: Luke 14:25–33
Theme: The Radical Call of Discipleship


Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Today we are faced with one of the most bracing and uncompromising teachings of our Lord. The Gospel of Luke tells us:

“Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, cannot be my disciple… Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.”

These are hard words. But they are not cruel.

They are words of divine clarity, given by Christ Himself — not to drive us away, but to awaken us from spiritual complacency.

In an age of compromise and comfort, our Lord is calling us back to the truth — the full truth — of what it means to be His disciple.

There is a temptation in every age, including ours, to present a soft Gospel — a Gospel without sacrifice, without suffering, without the Cross.

But that is not the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

That is a counterfeit.

The real Gospel — the Gospel preached by the Apostles, handed down through the Church, preserved in sacred Tradition — is a Gospel of transformation.

It is a call to die to ourselves, to put God first, to renounce sin, to strive for holiness, and to walk the narrow way, no matter the cost.

When Jesus says, “Whoever does not hate father and mother…”, He is not commanding hatred in the emotional sense.

He is speaking in the Jewish idiom of preference — to love Christ so completely that even the deepest human attachments are secondary.

It is a warning against disordered loves.

Even good things — family, career, reputation — can become idols if they take precedence over our obedience to God.

In our time, how often do people place relationships, political loyalties, or public opinion above the truth of the Gospel?

How many avoid speaking truth out of fear of offending others, rather than out of love for God?

Christ is not asking us to abandon love — but to purify it, to order it rightly.

We love our family best when we love God first.


[Carrying the Cross: The Heart of Discipleship]

Jesus then says, “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.”

To follow Christ is to follow Him to Calvary.

There is no Christianity without the Cross.

There is no discipleship without sacrifice.

The saints understood this.

They embraced suffering as a path to sanctification.

Whether it was St. Maximilian Kolbe, offering his life in place of another in Auschwitz,

or St. Thérèse of Lisieux, enduring hidden suffering with joyful love,

they saw the Cross not as a curse, but as a gift — the means of their union with Christ.

In our own lives, the Cross may take many forms: sickness, rejection, loneliness, the battle against sin, the challenge of remaining faithful in a culture that mocks virtue.

But if we carry our crosses with faith, they become altars of grace — places where Christ conforms us to Himself.


[Counting the Cost: No Half Measures]

Jesus gives two examples — the man building a tower and the king going to war.

Both must count the cost before acting.

Christianity is not a hobby.

It is not a part-time devotion.

It is not a matter of attending Mass once a week and then living as the world does.

To follow Christ means total surrender.

It means daily conversion.

It means rejecting what is false, no matter how fashionable, and standing by what is true, no matter how unpopular.

This is especially relevant in our time, when so many moral truths — truths about life, marriage, family, sexuality, and the sacredness of the liturgy — are being ignored or attacked.

But we are not called to blend in.

We are called to stand firm.

As St. Paul says, “Do not conform yourselves to this age, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind” (Romans 12:2).


[Giving Up Everything for the Kingdom]

Jesus ends with a final challenge: “Anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.”

He is not condemning material goods in themselves.

He is warning us: if we cling to the world, we cannot cling to Him.

The saints gave everything for Christ.

They left homes, lands, wealth, comfort, and even their own lives.

Why?

Because they had found the Pearl of Great Price.

And they knew that nothing compares to the surpassing worth of knowing Jesus Christ.

In our own way, we are called to detach from the things of this world — from greed, from distraction, from sin — and to live simply, humbly, reverently, and obediently.


[The Church Needs Disciples, Not Spectators]

The Church today needs not more opinions, but more saints.

Not more compromise, but more conviction.

Not more spectators, but true disciples.

Christ is still calling men and women to follow Him radically — to enter the priesthood and religious life, to live holy marriages, to raise faithful children, to pray deeply, and to suffer joyfully.

But this call requires courage.

It requires a willingness to lose everything, if necessary, for the sake of Christ.


[Conclusion: The Narrow Way Leads to Glory]

Dear friends, we are not made for mediocrity.

We are made for holiness.

And holiness is not comfort.

It is crucifixion.

But it is also resurrection.

For whoever loses his life for Christ will find it.

And whoever follows Him to Calvary will one day rejoice with Him in glory.

Let us then take up our cross, deny ourselves, and follow the One who gave everything for us.

Let us count the cost — and pay it — for the reward is eternal life with God.

“Eye has not seen, ear has not heard, nor has it entered into the heart of man what God has prepared for those who love Him.” (1 Cor 2:9)

Amen.

Jesus - Do you think I have come to bring peace on earth?

 



Today’s Gospel might be one of the most unsettling things we’ve heard Jesus say.

"Do you think I have come to bring peace to the earth?

No, I tell you, but rather division!"

This doesn’t sound like the Jesus we’ve grown comfortable with—the Jesus who blesses peacemakers, who calms storms, who forgives sinners.

But here, Jesus speaks with holy urgency, with the fire of a prophet and the heart of a Savior consumed by love.

Let’s take a moment to look more deeply.

"I have come to bring fire to the earth…"

What is this fire?

It’s not the fire of destruction—it is the fire of conversion, purification, and love.

The fire of the Holy Spirit, who descended at Pentecost in tongues of flame.

The fire of hearts burning on the road to Emmaus when Jesus opened the Scriptures.

The fire that Christ longs to see blazing in the hearts of His followers.

When Jesus says He wishes this fire were already kindled, He’s expressing a divine longing—for the world to be ablaze with truth, with holiness, with passionate love for God and neighbor.

But fire doesn’t just warm. It also refines. And that’s where the challenge begins.

"Do you think I have come to bring peace? No, but rather division."

This isn’t the division of anger or hatred.

It’s the division that happens when truth meets resistance.

When light shines into darkness.

When God’s kingdom confronts the kingdoms of this world.

When you choose to live fully for Christ, you may feel this division.

Maybe you already have.

  • A family member who mocks your faith…
  • A friend who pulls away because you won’t condone what you know is wrong…
  • A culture that calls you “intolerant” for standing up for marriage, for life, for truth…and against homosexuality, abortion, and gender lies.

This Gospel reminds us: you are not alone.

Jesus Himself experienced this.

His message divided households, cities, nations.

But it was never because He lacked love—it was precisely because He loved us enough to tell the truth, even when it cost Him everything.


And what about The Fire and the Sword

Some hear these words and get nervous. “Division? Fire?

This isn’t the gentle Gospel I wanted!”

But the Gospel isn’t always gentle—because sin is not gentle.

Lies are not gentle. And lukewarm hearts don’t get into heaven.

St. Catherine of Siena once said:

“Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire.”

But brothers and sisters, to set the world on fire, we must first let ourselves be consumed.

Are we willing to be set ablaze with His love?

Are we willing to let Him burn away the pride, the compromises, the fear that keep us from being true disciples?


And then there is A Baptism of Suffering

Jesus speaks of a baptism He must endure—the baptism of the Cross.

He’s not just talking about water or ritual.

He’s talking about the full immersion into suffering, rejection, and death… for our sake.

If we are serious about following Him, we too must pass through fire.

Through trials.

Through difficult choices.

The world tells us to take the easy road.

Jesus tells us to take up our cross.

Not because He wants us to suffer, but because He knows that only through the cross can we reach the resurrection.


What Does This Mean For Us Today?

So what is Jesus asking of us here and now?

1.   Kindle the Fire:

Let your faith be visible.

 

Let the fire of the Holy Spirit animate your daily life.

 

Pray fervently. Speak truth courageously. Love sacrificially

 

2.   Be Willing to Stand Alone:

If standing with Christ puts you at odds with the world—even with loved ones—don’t be afraid.

Jesus warned us it would happen.

But He also promised: “I am with you always.”

3.   Speak the Truth in Love:

We are not called to stir division for its own sake.

We speak truth not to win arguments but to win souls.

Always with humility, always with love—but never without truth.

4.   Pray for Unity in Christ:

Real peace comes only through truth.

We must pray for our families, our parishes, our nation—to be united not by comfort or compromise, but by a shared commitment to Christ.


In Conclusion

Yes, Jesus brings peace—but not the kind the world gives.

He brings a peace that only comes after the battle, after the fire, after the Cross.

So let’s not be afraid of the fire.

Let’s not fear the divisions that come when we put Christ first.

Instead, let us live with hearts ablaze, willing to stand firm, willing to love boldly, willing to follow wherever Jesus leads.

And in the end, we will hear those blessed words:

"Well done, My good and faithful servant… enter into the joy of your Lord."

Amen.

The One Necessary Thing (Mary and Martha)

 

Homily on Luke 10:38-42

Theme: “The One Thing Necessary”

Today’s Gospel brings us into a simple but deeply meaningful scene in the home of Martha and Mary—two sisters who receive Jesus as a guest.

And yet, this brief passage challenges us with a profound spiritual question: Are we choosing the better part?

Let us listen again to the heart of the story.

Jesus enters the village, and Martha welcomes Him into her home.

Immediately, she busies herself with all the preparations—probably cooking, cleaning, ensuring that everything is in order.

Meanwhile, Mary sits at the feet of Jesus, listening to His words.

Eventually, Martha becomes frustrated.

She turns to Jesus and says, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”

And Jesus answers with gentleness but clarity:
“Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things. There is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, and it will not be taken from her.”

Let’s pause here.

Jesus is not criticizing Martha’s hospitality.

In fact, in many ways, she is doing something good—serving the Lord, taking care of others.

Her service is not the problem.

What Jesus is pointing out is that her heart is anxious, divided, distracted.

She is doing the right thing outwardly, but inwardly she is not at peace.

1. The Balance of Action and Contemplation

In the Catholic tradition, we often speak of two modes of discipleship: the active and the contemplative.

Martha represents the active life—serving, ministering, doing.

Mary represents the contemplative life—listening, praying, resting in God’s presence.

But it would be a mistake to think that Jesus is telling us to choose only one or the other.

The truth is, we need both.

The saints understood this well.

Think of St. Benedict, who gave us the rule “Ora et labora” — “Pray and work.”

Think of St. Teresa of Calcutta, who spent hours in prayer each morning before going out to serve the poorest of the poor.

Even Jesus Himself often withdrew from the crowds to pray to the Father, before going out to teach and heal.

The problem is not that Martha is serving.

The problem is that she forgot to sit at the feet of Jesus first.

And because of that, her service became filled with anxiety, comparison, and even resentment.

How often does that happen to us?

2. Distraction and Anxiety in Our Lives

We live in a world that constantly rewards busyness.

How often do we hear people say, “I’m just so busy,” as if it’s a badge of honor?

But busyness is not the same as holiness.

Activity is not the same as fruitfulness.

Sometimes, in our desire to serve or to achieve, we lose sight of the Lord Himself.

Jesus says, “You are worried and anxious about many things.”

That could be said of so many of us.

We worry about work, about family, about money, about health.

We even worry about our ministries in the Church.

But Jesus invites us to something deeper: resting in His presence, receiving His Word, letting Him be our peace.

This Gospel reminds us that prayer is not a luxury—it is the one thing necessary.

Without it, everything else becomes shallow and strained.

With it, even our smallest acts of service become filled with love and meaning.

3. Choosing the Better Part

So what does it mean to “choose the better part,” as Mary did?

It means making space in our lives for silence and prayer.

It means reading Scripture—not just for information, but for transformation.

It means coming to Mass not just out of obligation, but with hearts open to receive.

It means adoring Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, listening to Him speak in the depths of our hearts.

Mary chose the better part because she made time to be with Jesus, to sit at His feet and let His words shape her soul.

Let’s not misunderstand: the goal is not to stop serving.

But rather, to make sure our service flows from a deep relationship with Christ.

4. Practical Applications

Let me offer just a few simple suggestions, ways we can imitate Mary in our daily lives:

  • Begin your day with prayer. Even five or ten minutes of quiet before the Lord can change the tone of your whole day.
  • Read a passage of Scripture each day, especially from the Gospels. Let Jesus speak to you.
  • Visit the Blessed Sacrament. take advantage of that treasure.
  • Pray the Rosary, especially when you feel anxious or distracted. Our Blessed Mother will help you sit at the feet of her Son.

5. Closing Encouragement

Brothers and sisters, Jesus is not far from us.

He wants to visit us, to dwell in our homes, to speak to our hearts.

But we must make the time and space to receive Him.

So, let us ask ourselves honestly: Am I more like Martha—anxious and busy, even with good things?

Or am I striving to be like Mary, sitting quietly with Jesus, choosing the better part?

Let us ask for the grace to do both: to serve like Martha, but first to pray like Mary.

Then our hearts will be at peace, and our lives will truly reflect the love of Christ.

Amen.